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Exams carry a lot of weight in Kenya, for students and for their families. A little nervousness can sharpen focus, but too much stress can cause panic, blanking out, poor sleep and a loss of confidence. The good news is that stress around exams responds well to simple habits and the right support.

Start with a realistic plan

Break the syllabus into small topics and give each one a day. A timetable you can actually keep is better than a perfect one you abandon. Study in short blocks of 25 to 45 minutes, followed by a five minute break.

Study in ways that stick

Reading notes again and again feels productive but does not help much. Instead, test yourself with past papers, explain a topic aloud as if teaching a friend, and review difficult topics a few days later. Studying with a small group can help, as long as the group stays on task.

Look after the basics

Sleep is when the brain stores what you learned, so protect it, especially the week before exams. Eat regular meals, drink water, and move your body, even a short walk. Limit late night phone use.

Calm the body, then the mind

If you feel panicky, slow your breathing: breathe in for four counts, out for six, and repeat for a few minutes. Replace thoughts like “I will fail” with “I have prepared, and I will do my best”.

For parents

Encourage effort over marks. Ask “how can I help?” rather than “why are you not studying?”. Avoid comparing siblings or classmates.

If worry about exams is affecting sleep, appetite or mood for weeks, or a student keeps freezing in tests, study skills coaching and counselling can make a real difference.

If this sounds familiar, you do not have to work it out alone. Try a private self-check test or schedule a call with Winfred. Sessions are confidential, in person or online.